My youngest is a senior in high school. My time is limited with her. When she wants to spend time with mom (not too often) I take advantage of that. Yesterday she wanted to go shopping. I absolutley dreaded going to the mall. I hate the crowds and the rude people. I try my best to stay away from malls from Thanksgiving through the end of the year.
As far as the rude people go, it was present yesterday. Even before we got into the mall an incident occurred in the parking lot. At this particular mall, the parking spaces are a bit on the small side. The mall was packed to no surprise. There were not too many open places. I did find one that was somewhat close to an enterance. The person on the driver’s side was not exactly between the lines. Being a slender person, I opted to park there anyway. I carefully got out of the car. My door ended up tapping the car next to mine. Unbeknownst to me, the driver was in the car. He rudely jumped out and yelled,” How badly did you hit my car you B____. Why did you even park there?”
I calmy responded, ” I am capable of parking my car between the lines.” I proceeded with my daughter to enter the mall, thinking the incident had ended. The gentleman follwed us into the mall. IN a rage, he continued to yell and scream. He made an absolute fool of himself. A sales person asked if I needed assistance. I politle said no. The man( by no means would I call him a gentleman) said I did. The sales person asked what the problem was. The man told the story and the sales person again asked what was the problem. The sales person said he saw the problem was the man was harassing me and asked me if I wanted security to be notified. I graciously asked the man if he was done and then refused.
My daughter and I briefly talked about the incident. She concluded that people have issues that they carry withe them and one should not becoming in engaged in conversation with people when they behave in that manner. I am hoping she will carry this lesson with her, particularly when family returns home for the holidays.
